Our brains are not multi-threaded. Many struggle to sustain mental health than subvert the things we care about. The need for global initiative to strengthen mental health in SdGs is critical, not to mention the global political issues that has much affected many. Mental health: many remain stuck in trama or grief, unable to experience our lives fully after. In order to heal, it takes time. 
This creation was aligned thread by thread with 2 wooden sticks. Yes, it took time. However you're healing, it takes time and adjustments that could bring more joy to your life only after learning to embrace what happened.